Oral husband! Just found out.?

I just found out today my husband has oral . Ive been married to him for 8 yrs and so far I never had any symptoms nor outbreak. For 8 yrs he had 2 outbreaks but he told me it was just a cold sore. I never knew it was . Im really upset right now bec. he's been hiding it from me. Do you think i have oral now? So far i have no symptoms and i dont remember kissing him when he had his outbreaks.