How come girls have it easier when it comes to dating/relationships but us guys have it harder? why!?!!!!?

It sounds like you are trying to hard. It's not that difficult to get a girl, unless you are extremely ugly, or have no self esteem whatsoever. You complain a LOT, chicks don't like guys that ***** and whine, it makes you seem like a . So my advice, quit bitching, and quit trying so hard, just start talking to random girls, if it seems like she likes you, ask her out or something.