Why would a guy miss his abusive drunken ex and want her over me?

I am basically just like your bf except in my story, you would be my wife and my ex has no law degree. Its a weird situation. My ex even cheated on me. And yet, ive said things similar. It could be that hes just saying these things in the heat of the moment, if he breaks up with you because of it thats a different story, but it would be his loss. I would never act on it. Really what i miss is the , everyday at least twice a day, amazing . Other than that my ex is trash and my wife is staying in my life. He probally doesnt mean it sweetheart, guys are as s holes sometimes. Hope you guys work it out.